This One's for all the Beautiful Women

It has been a long while since I have posted anything on my blog, mainly because of how unwell I have been feeling and going through a lot! But I am back now, stronger than ever! Before posting this, I have hesitated a lot... However, I am dedicating this post to all the beautiful women around the world. If you have a mother, daughter, sister, niece, cousin, or grandma please take their health and your health seriously. Do your regular check ups and exams on time. Endometriosis affects 1 in 10 women daily. It does not have visible signs but it can be manageable. Speaking as a survivor myself, the pain and risks that we go through make it totally worth it to spread the awareness and make this process better for the loved ones around us. Cheers to all the strong women battling against a condition around the word! 

Individuality: un-brainwashed & un-controlled هویت

  هویت 

كاش مى شد به مقصد رسيد

كاش مىشد سپىده دم را ديد

كاش ميون بايد ها و نبايد ها

مي شد به هويت خود پى برد

كاش ما آدم ها به جاى كينه

مي ساختيم خانه اي از آيينه

مي سپردىم دلو به دريا

به دور از ترس فرداها

كاش مى گرفتى دستم را محكم

پىدا مى كرديم مهررا مستحكم

به دور از هياهوهي اين شهر ها

دنيايي مىساختيم پر از رويا ها

|spontaneous| |changes|

Often times we are so inclined towards resisting change that we miss the opportunity when it passes by. Human nature is naturally driven towards wanting to do the same thing over and over again; hence why we fear the change and even worse, we resist it. It is the act of uncertainty that forces us to stay in our comfort zone with the old habits without believing that we are missing the chance to accomplish greater things. We need to welcome spontaneous changes into our lives and cherish it more. Change is good, change is necessary!

Unknown good

It's the unknown good that touches most hearts and turns peoples' lives into blissful moments... not the good that you post on social media or brag about. If you really want to make someone happy, silently do something good for them and ask nothing in return. You will feel happier than ever as karma always does its work!

Only kindness does not have any limits...

Every end is a new beginning

As I was walking past by crowds of people shopping last minute for the holidays, I couldn't help but wonder how quickly 2015 passed by... Then I started reflecting on the happy and sad moments, numerous experiences, and I decided I wanted to be thought free. I just didn't want to hold anything in my heart so it would be ready for the new beginnings and my mind free of unnecessary thoughts to sink in the positive vibe. This is to an awesome new year to come: hope everyone has their wishes fulfilled and a joyous journey this year! 

Do something for someone that can not pay you back

And sometimes it's more about giving than receiving. The fulfillment of doing something good for someone that can not pay you back! So proud of my school's MBA association for organizing holiday toy drive. 

Stop worrying, start Living

This post might quite be more than just a title with a cute picture in it and maybe that is why it took me a while to draft it... I have been taking some time off from writing to really reflect deep inside of me. During this period which lasted about 90 days, I started thinking end of each day, that this was about me and what I wanted to do. What made me happy and what was I upset about. You've got to understand this, one thing that can suck up your happiness is excessive worrying about the unknown future and the events it might carry that are not even here yet. Why waste your time and happiness when you can be just in present and enjoy it? Positive thoughts influence positive events and vice versa. Remember, you are in charge of your joy and no one else can give it to you. No one else can make you blissfull. So stop worrying and start living.

Dear Woman,

#donotgiveup

Hope everyone finds a reason for not giving up today & always!

Anthony Robbins again

In order for you to develop a new path or accomplish a different goal, you have to come out of your comfort zone. If you get too lost in daily releatitive tasks with the same salary, you might as well just stay there forever! Go outside, explore beyond your strengths and never forget that you are amazing... (Just in case you needed some motivation.)

My wish, for you

I hope the days come easy and the moments pass slow,
And each road leads you where you wanna go,
And if you're faced with a choice, and you have to choose,
I hope you choose the one that means the most to you.
And if one door opens to another door closed,
I hope you keep on walkin' till you find the window,
If it's cold outside, show the world the warmth of your smile.
But more than anything, more than anything...

My wish, for you, is that this life becomes all that you want it to,
Your dreams stay big, your worries stay small,
You never need to carry more than you can hold,
And while you're out there getting where you're getting to,
I hope you know somebody loves you, and wants the same things too,
Yeah, this, is my wish.

I hope you never look back, but you never forget,
All the ones who love you, in the place you left,
I hope you always forgive, and you never regret,
And you help somebody every chance you get,
Oh, you find God's grace, in every mistake,
And always give more than you take..

Einstein

It was all beautiful

Since we're approaching the last day of '14 thought I'd take a flashback to whatever happened this year... So many amazing people walked into my life & some left... Great memories happened! I'm thankful for each and every one of them; keep on staying blessed & loving this amazing gift called ''life.'' We only get limited chances, make it a great year!!

Intrinsic Vs. Extrinsic

The reason why we fail in life is that we are obsessed with how things appear on the outside instead of worrying about the value created inside: how our neighbors pursue us, what image do our friends create of us, and etc. This drives us to work harder in order to obtain more materials to fulfill the wish of impressing others...what we miss out on the point is that the clothes that we are and degrees/status that we carry has nothing to do with who we are as a person! On that note, chill a little bit, enjoy life more often, and learn to live for yourself. Do not take life too seriously if you want to live in present. Let happiness define you and the positive impact you make on world/individuals/creatures overall!

It just is...

It is easy for each and every one of us to love the person at their best: when they are happy, successful, showering us with the gifts... But it takes courage of the real person to stay -even when things are unpleasant or their partner is not being their best self. To love is handling the person in their most vulnerable times when the person is least lovable. 

It just is

Love just is

 

Fine

From time to time things can go wrong and people can be wrong accordingly. We expect to control others around us and thus remain expectant for them to act in a special way (that we desire). As a matter of fact, people tend to make the wrong choices more than the right choices and that is absolutely fine.

 

It is fine when we accidentally break things ands relationships or hurt each other's emotions without having real intentions and giving it a second thought.

 

It is fine if people  open their mouths and disrespect you with the lack of understanding how that made you feel. You know yourself and people like us prefer to stay in the middle; there is no right or wrong, there is just always a way to make things work.

 

It is fine as long as you have the light, you become the light and everything else starts travelling from inside of you. We are part of a bigger chaos in the world outside and that is fine.

 

And it is fine when we [sometimes] leave some things/people in the mere hope of better stuff to come up. Not everything is meant to stay...some events are meant to happen in our lives just to form friendships, learn lessons, and gain happiness in the moment. But what all of them are destined into, is to form us into the human being we are today. Make peace with your past and live in the present: whoever matters will stay in your life and if they make the choice to walk away, it is fine.stay loyal to your thoughts and be firm with your words...you are fine...
 

 

Words

words

How beautiful it is when someone actually digests their words before spitting them out? As someone who is well-known to speak a lot and express her mind freely, I am recently finding it outrageous when a person goes on and on talking, specially in a loud voice... what happened to the respect towards personal space? Not everyone is interested in your loud voice expressing absolutely nonsense! So next time, when you are talking, try speaking only what is necessary, true, and clean. If there is one thing I appreciate a lot, it is words and specifically the beautiful words that come out from a person's mouth: since that is the gate door to their mind. So do not waste words, choose them wisely and with care.

Equilibrium Point

Life is a balance of letting go and holding onto, positives and negatives should be in equilibrium as long as you know when to add up and when to take it away... us, human beings have the tendency of wanting to let go of anything (or anyone) that makes us frustrated/angry/stressed. Having the wrong perception that anybody who loves us will never make us feel that way. WRONG-all the creatures are entitled to the same emotions we go through; if you have someone that loves you, hold on to them and let go of anything or anyone that makes you feel anything but happy. Life is too short to feel anything less and if you love them back, that is just fabulous. 

Dare to CHANGE

Tomorrow, I am planning on getting lost: take a totally strange path to work, try a different food maybe Vietnamese or something similar to that; travel somewhere new and meet various people, or even listen to another type of music

 

You find yourself in the rarest, strangest, most impossible paths... Change is liberating, we are united in our differences.